Dude. I spend so much time feeling guilty about not giving my time to people I don’t really want to give it to for whatever reason. If I chilled out and quit feeling guilty, I might actually have the social energy to hang with the people I do enjoy. Or maybe not — maybe I’d just spend more time alone, not feeling guilty, which would be the tits! I ramble — my point is you reminded me to stop feeling guilty for what I don’t even want, in order to make room for what I do want. LOVE IT!